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Family Security Shopping – Plan to Keep Your Family Safe?

January 30, 2023 Chris McGoey

Family Security Shopping can be much safer with a security plan

  • Why should we have a security plan when shopping at the mall?
  • What precautions can we take to be safe in the parking lot?
  • What if someone approaches to carjack our car or rob us?

Family Security Shopping: Have the Plan to Be Safe

Whenever your family walks out of the front door they leave that zone of protection that you have created. The secret to keeping your family reasonably safe once they leave home is to have a family security plan.

To develop a family security plan you must give careful thought to the public routines of each family member and think of ways to make them safer from the violent people in the world.

The best way to accomplish this is to hold a family meeting to discuss this plan and play what-if using different scenarios.

  • What if we need to go shopping at the mall?
  • What precautions can we take to be safer in the parking lot?
  • What if someone approaches to carjack or rob us while walking to our car?
  • What would we do, how would we react, and would we survive?
  • Where would we go and who would we notify in case of an emergency?

Most people have no such family plan and have not met as a family to discuss what-if situations. When or if a criminal assault does occur, the family will not be prepared and will have to rely on instinct in response to the incident.

What if your violent crime response instincts are wrong or your reactions inappropriate, under the circumstances?

Family Security Shopping Centers

Shopping centers come in all sizes from giant regional malls to the small strip-center with only a few stores. What they have in common is a parking lot.

  • This is where your family is at greatest risk because of the “nature” of a parking lot.
  • If you think about it, we’re all strangers in a large parking lot.
  • Violent criminals can blend in with the rest of us and get in close proximity fairly easily.
  • Criminal predators can walk right by us and we will allow it because of the public setting.

Family Security Shopping: Learn to Observe Conduct

Next time you go to a large shopping center sit in the parking lot for a few minutes and observe how easy it would be for a criminal predator to approach and attack you or your family.

  • Shoppers walk to and from their cars totally consumed by their thoughts and thinking about what they are going to do next or reading social media on their phones.
  • Watch shoppers as they approach their cars fumbling for their keys. They will turn their backs and attention completely away from those nearby to load their shopping bags into the car and get children and infants installed inside the vehicle.
  • In most shopping centers violent crimes occur precisely at this point.
  • The most common violent crimes are purse-snatch and strong-arm robbery. Less common but potentially more serious are the crimes of carjacking and abduction.

Family Security Shopping: Awareness is Important

To protect your family in this setting the best defense is awareness. Awareness will allow you to anticipate the potential danger and plan ahead for the next time you go to a shopping center.

  • Planning includes selecting a safer time to shop (daylight) and arranging not to shop alone if possible.
  • You can plan where to park (i.e. not next to a large van) and in high-traffic areas.
  • You can plan to scan the area for suspicious males before parking and exiting your vehicle. You can also plan not to park or exit your vehicle if suspicious males are in the area.
  • Families should agree in advance to exit and enter their vehicle quickly and lock the doors.
  • Families should be trained to look around their vehicle before approaching and retreat if anyone suspicious is loitering in the area.
  • They should be trained to return to the shopping center and alert security or call the police.
  • Be aware and alert to predators loitering in the parking lot
  • Plan when to go and where to park
  • Do not get out of the car if it doesn’t appear safe to do so
  • Walk with intention. Scan the area around your car as you approach it
  • Teach your family to enter and exit the car quickly
  • Trust your instincts if you see someone suspicious
  • Return to the store if anyone looks or acts suspicious
  • Ask if the shopping center does parking lot escorts

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